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Bk Ray

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Subj: Re: Actually,The Police
Posted: Sat Jul 13, 2019 at 09:33:52 am EDT (Viewed 73 times)
Reply Subj: Tough Love
Posted: Sat Jul 13, 2019 at 05:52:31 am EDT (Viewed 145 times)

    2) Their relationship is problematic, otherwise she wouldn't be doing this. It's not healthy but it sounds like there is co-dependence going on here. These relationships carry on because both are to scared to commit to a break-up, even if it is healthier.

Well, she did say that she doesn't tell anyone what she does there, and it is her privacy. I guess that he is anyone. Does this mean that she was being deceptive to/with her boyfriend? She said that he knows that she works there, but she doesn't tell him what she does. He said that she told him that she serves drinks there.

    3) The police? Boyfriend is just using you to get evidence to empower his position in their relationship. If he goes to the police, he will go to the police. You are just sharing more evidence.

Actually, she DID go to the police! For harassment and stalking. I wasn't stalking her, but I did break boundaries by going to her "Boyfriend" (They have broken up before.) . I don't think that it's a police matter. But HE said that he had her go the police because I deceived him when I didn't meet with him to share all of the texts. So he thinks that I was lying to him (I wasn't.), and she told him that I was weirdo who she never touched. To be fair, I am ashamed of some of my behavior. She gave me her number and after a few weeks, I looked her up because I was curious about her. I mean, I told her this and she was fine with it, but that and a few other things that I did were kind of an invasion of her privacy. Also, boyfriend said that he would leave her if all of this was true, he just wanted proof.

    4) Look back at your answer and all the financial commitment you have made for someone working in a brothel/strip club. Do you think that sounds normal?

Looking at it now, no! I also spent a lot on getting her sex gel and stuff. I did really enjoy being with her. And, not to brag, but I had NO IDEA that I could last THAT long!

    Leave the whole mess behind you. If you do this again with someone else, don't get emotionally involved. That's been your mistake here.

Yeah, you are right about that.

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